Well-known Nigerian gospel singer Tope Alabi has finally addressed the controversy surrounding her alleged marriage to the father of her first youngster.
DAILY POST experiences that Tope Alabi was beforehand in a relationship with Lekan Olaoye, and the duo had a daughter, Ayomikun.
After separating from Olaoye, Tope Alabi married Soji Alabi in November 2000, and the union produced two youngsters.
Recall that the singer was criticised on social media a number of months in the past for not inviting Olaoye to their daughter’s marriage ceremony and for altering Ayomikun’s surname to that of her present husband.
Nevertheless, talking about her earlier relationship in a latest video shared on her Fb web page, the gospel singer acknowledged that her ex by no means introduced his household to her father, not to mention carry out the conventional ceremony for marriage.
She mentioned: “I began dwelling with him, feeling there was no level going again to the place my household was pressuring me to marry in any respect prices.
Little did I do know I had moved from the frying pan to the hearth. At any time when I visited house, my father would categorical his concern.
“You recognize, he couldn’t inform me to not dwell with the man. [He’d say] that he hadn’t met the man I used to be dwelling with nor any of his members of the family. It took repeated insistence earlier than my so-referred to as accomplice finally got here one night time, bringing alongside work buddies.
“My household requested when his household would come for the introduction, and all he mentioned was, ‘Okay’.
“If that ‘okay’ was ever going to return to move, maybe it might have been tomorrow. However tomorrow by no means got here. Now, I don’t even want his ‘okay’ anymore. My expensive father, who as soon as longed for it, is now not right here. Whereas right here, he obtained a much better ‘okay’ from an excellent household. “Women, please hearken to me, when a person sees that you’re gullible or weak, he can reap the benefits of you”.
